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A Fool At Fifty Three Kennedy O Obohwemu
No, we have been silent long enough!
We have come a long way since our fight against colonial rule. We are "free" and "independent" indeed. But it seems we were better off under British colonialism, because gross insanity has become the order of the day. We've witnessed a lot of atrocities in the past, but it seems our sorrows have only just begun.
To think that our shameless Senators actually deliberated whether or not to legalise under-age marriage is the final nail in the coffin.
We encourage our youths to have sex in public in the name of reality TV shows. That is not enough. Is it now time to legalise under-age marriage?
Nigeria is arguably the most religion-obsessed nation in the world, yet we commit the worst atrocities!
On Tuesday July 16, 2013 the Senate, as part of the ongoing constitutional amendment exercise, voted that any married woman of ripe age is free to renounce her citizenship. The Senate originally wanted to expunge a controversial section of the constitution which makes any married woman an adult, but the proposal failed because some unscrupulous elements voted against it. So the 2/3 majority votes constitutionally required for the proposal to pass through could not be obtained due to shortage of 13 votes because 60 Senators voted for the removal of that clause as against 73 required votes. 35 shameless idiots and umbrageous debacles voted for the retention of that clause.
That is the genesis of our present worries.
The failed amendment has generated furore in the polity following the interpretation that an under-aged girl who gets married will be deemed to be of full age (18 years and above), which is utterly ridiculous. Preposterous balderdash! It contradicts Section 21 of the Child Rights Act which says "no person under the age of 18 is capable of contracting a marriage; and any marriage that is contracted by a minor is null and void and has no effect whatsoever."
There is a need to clear the misconception and misinterpretation of Section 29 (4a) and (4b) of the Constitution. It is a specific provision regarding a woman who wants to renounce her citizenship & not marriage.
Child marriage should be recognised as violation of children’s rights and a direct form of discrimination against a child, especially the girl bride who as a result of the practice is often deprived of her basic rights to health, education, development and equality.
The African Charter on the Rights and Welfare of the Child, 1990, Article XXI, states that “child marriage and the betrothal of girls and boys shall be prohibited and effective actions, including legislation, shall be taken to specify the minimum age of marriage to be 18 years.”
On the part of the Senate’s Child Marriage Bill, there was no age certification, which means there is ambiguity in that bill. What was passed into law is for a girl child that is married to be accorded adult status. The Senate still needs to sit over this issue. There should be a clear definition of the child in this regard. The Nigerian Constitution states that adulthood begins from the voting age of 18 years. The senators want a person below 18 to be accorded adulthood for their own selfish and libidinous aims. That decision has to be upturned for obvious reasons.
Underage marriage will cause complications during child birth. The child bride is likely to become pregnant at an early age and there is a strong correlation between the age of a mother and maternal mortality. Girls between ages 10-14 are five times more likely to die in pregnancy or childbirth than women aged 20-24, and girls aged 15-19 are twice as likely to die.
Young mothers face higher risks during pregnancies, including complications such as heavy bleeding, fistula (a debilitating medical condition where the victimised female child passes urine and faeces through the vagina), infections, anaemia and other ailments which contribute to higher mortality rates of both mother and child.
Nigeria has more than 800,000 fistula cases, the highest in the world, all resulting from child marriages, which also contribute to high maternal deaths.
Considering these indisputable facts, what on earth moved the Senators of the Federal Republic to make such embarrasing decision? What wretched discipline moved those undexterous dullards to confront us with contemptuous resolve, showing supercilious opprobrium for our motherland, devising such contemptible ploys and blazoning mendacious talebearing?
What would make the Senate want to subject a girl child to a lifetime of imprisonment with a man old enough to be her great great great grandfather? If that is allowed in some religious sects, must other religions follow suit? Why pass it into law? What sort of madness is that? These old men! Those hair-brained mooncalves! Instead of thinking of your peaceful passage into the next world, your mind is occupied by thoughts of the little waistline of harmless 13-year olds.
This kind of discourteous behaviour is inadmissible. How can the Senate subject us to such nefarious quandaries and unutterable obloquies? We have endured the most harrowing of discomfiture because of their calamitous morass!
We understand that Nigeria is a multi-cultural entity. We have different people, different backgrounds and different cultures. There is no culture or religion that is universal. Why not let each state have its own constitution so that if people of a particular state want under-age marriage, they can do it within their state without making it a national law. People who believe that their religion allows them to marry under-age girls should do so within their area of jurisdiction. They should give their own children fistulas without making it a national trend!
The Senate must recant their renitency on the matter and throw away their impetuous musings!
We must continue to contest this issue until it is resolved in our favour!
P.S: Senator Ahmad Sani Yerima, the mastermind behind the "Under-age Marriage Bill" was the first governor to introduce Shariah law into a Nigerian state (Zamfara, in 2000). In 2009 he married a 13-year-old Egyptian girl in the Nigerian capital, Abuja, as his 4th wife, causing widespread outrage. He had also previously married another 13-year-old, and divorced one wife before she was 18.
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